Absolute power dating mp3
For example, let’s start with some of the women’s hormones. Now, when I get into this, this is where people are going to have to listen to this again and again, or get my new book, Beyond Mars and Venus.There are two major causes of women’s hormones being out of balance.
Now, romance is going to do it the easiest; it’s the most powerful. Be in a class where there’s a teacher, where you’re learning something from someone you didn’t know. So you are needing something, and somebody is providing for you. Because when she is giving love, she’s also producing a brain chemical called oxytocin. But we have no idea what you’re talking about.” Now that was an important lesson for me, because I realized: all this suffering and I am not making a difference. Everybody has an experience where you really needed something and somebody was there for you, and you never forget it.But thank goodness we can learn why we have low testosterone as men, and how to naturally rebuild it.And the same thing for women, even after menopause when women’s ovaries aren’t making as much estrogen—they still make a little tiny bit, by the way, but the main amount comes from the adrenal glands.Before we just look at chemicals here, let’s look at the psychological attributes that go along with these hormones.When a woman has estrogen increasing, when it’s at a low level, she doesn’t feel like she needs anybody, so she’s very autonomous. Now when her estrogen levels increase, what happens is, her needs increase. I need more pair bonding.” Now, pair bonding is the experience where she is getting something she can’t give herself—that would be attention, that would be affection, that would be touch, that would be interest, that would be romance, that would be carrying a box for her, that would be opening a door for her, that would be helping her solve a problem, that would be doing something for her that she’s not doing for herself.His books have sold more than 50 million copies in 50 different languages around the world. You know the old saying of, is the glass half full or is it half empty? When you can see the fullness along with the emptiness, then you’re a happy, fulfilled person, and that’s what our relationships can train us to be. I kind of took that idea from the time management courses, where they’ll often say people spend 80% of their time wasting it on things that aren’t productive and 20% of the time on what’s really earning a living and being most productive.
You may have seen him on TED, Oprah, Larry King, Dr. What I see is that people will often spend 80% of their time and energy trying to make their relationship work, rather than switch it around and have a life that’s providing 80% of your fulfillment, your friendships, your worth, your self-love, your prayer, your personal growth, your exercise, your diet. Then what happens is you look to your partner for 20% of your fulfillment, and it takes you to a higher level. Forty years I’ve been teaching this stuff, and every year it evolves.
John Gray, author of the mega-bestseller Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. You know, people ask me, “How does love affect your health? It’s friendship, it’s community, it’s participation, it’s work, it’s reward, it’s vacation, it’s singing, it’s connecting, it’s walking, it’s exercising with the planet. Most people experience a glimpse of it when they fall in love.
He literally wrote the textbook for my wife Alyson’s communication class in college. My wife, Alyson, literally read your book as a textbook in college. How does happiness, how does confidence, how does trust, how does safety, how does that all affect your health? The newness of a relationship stimulates high levels of dopamine; particularly, a sexually charged newness will stimulate, literally, heroin-like levels of dopamine in the same part of the brain as cocaine or dopamine or sugar. When love doesn’t last, it’s kind of like they never really loved that person. They love how they feel when they’re with that person and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Because, see, in the beginning, with all the newness and the lack of history, you do make her happy. The boy just calls back and they go, “Oh, he called, he called. We see so many women today and men with low testosterone and women with hormonal imbalance.
What’s going on is their body isn’t producing those hormones. There’s certain relationships that will stimulate higher estrogen in a woman.
How does the state of our romantic relationships affect our physical and mental health? So the bottom line here is that if you have loving relationships, your stress will be lower, and when your stress is lower, your health will increase. So all good nutrition can do for us is provide the building blocks for the house, but it’s our social relationships that build the house.