You may feel that you have a lot in common – you might, you might not and you will never know this unless you put in the time and discover.
RELATED: If Your Guy Does THESE 7 Things, He's Playing You For A Fool I'm going to make it easy for you by sharing three scenarios when, time and time again, I see women completely kid themselves about a man's interest.I've been involved as an author, editor, and contributor to over 15 programs on how to meet women, how to attract women, and how to live what I call the "Alpha Lifestyle." What is the Alpha Lifestyle?That's the lifestyle of a man who gets the women he wants, the financial success he wants, and the social and sexual success he deserves.Generally speaking, to get to the point of going on a date, there is some level of attraction there.However, unless you’re superficial or living in Lala Land, the point of dating is to build on the attraction, get to know the person, and ensure that whatever ideas and assumptions you have are grounded in reality.Dating does require effort, but if you already have to work at dating someone, you’ve got issues. As I said in my last post on Future Faking and Fast Forwarding, if you can’t handle the emotional consequences of making mistakes or being disappointed, aside from slowing down and rolling back your level of investment, I would address these areas so that you can date with a reasonable level of confidence and not feel like it’s a ride or die situation.
I’m not saying that there might not be a hiccup here or there, but if you start dating someone and you’re already feeling like you have to ‘work’ at a relationship you don’t have, the rot will set in fast. Our job when we date, aside from hopefully enjoying ourselves, is to work out what and who we’re dealing with before we make a commitment to have an exclusive relationship and before we feel safe enough to put both feet in and invest ourselves. Manage your insecurities, address any limiting beliefs, and don’t make dating a vocation.
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The average guy out there has absolutely ZERO chance of getting a hot girlfriend if he doesn't understand how to be an Alpha Masculine Man.
A lot of other dating gurus out there can't explain this stuff in simple and easy terms.
Like the issue of common interests and sexual attraction, there is this dangerous assumption that someone who we find worthy of dating in the first place must be someone who is worthy of a relationship.