Keep dating though no chemistry
Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.
It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still floored at some of the women in my gym!On the street, I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job.The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from girls here in Medellin.
It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.
More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.
A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.
Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.
I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.
I had to learn everything from experience, and it’s been a blast.