Younger girls for older guys dating
Being an older man, but acting like a younger man (or worse, lying about your age) doesn’t make any sense.You are destroying the very thing these Type 2s crave.
Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.Being fat, or having hair grow out of the side of your neck, or dressing in styles that were outdated 20 years ago might be perfectly okay for provider-hunting women your age, but it won’t be okay for the younger ones.You take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. I’ve made numerous posts about this lately, so click around this blog and take a look at a few if you have not read them yet. This does not mean you need to look like George Clooney.They don’t want a 38 year-old guy who acts like he’s 27. Trust me, when you act your age, but are cool and non-creepy, Type 2 VYW are literally the easiest women to have sex with quickly. ” This is not ASD…no technique will bust through this.They want a 38 year-old guy who acts like a decently cool, non-creepy, 38 year-old guy. I’ve been doing this for years, and to this day I’m still surprised how fast and easy it is (once you find those Type 2s of course). It’s simply a very strong, visceral preference, often based on the age of her parents which obviously you have zero control over.Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.
Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.
It’s true that if you’re really good looking or have extremely strong game you can overcome the fact that you’re acting younger and score with those Type 2s anyway, but why create the extra work for yourself? In most cases I’ve seen, and I’ve seen a lot, the reason guys try to act younger is because they’re trying to have sex with the Type 1s I’ve got news for you. Type 1s are horrified at the thought of having sex with men much older than they are. Even if you’ve think you’ve had sex with a reluctant Type 1 VYW before, it’s not because she was a Type 1…she was a reluctant Type 3.
If you’re over 30, you will never, and I mean never sleep with a Type 1 VYW. If she was a Type 1 you would have never gotten her pants off.
So I dress a little classier, talk a little slower, drop the energy level down just a little, talk more about the wisdom I’ve learned over the years, and exhibit other older-guy behaviors.
In other words, all the things you would never do if you were on a date with an over-33 woman (because then she’ll shove you in Make Him Wait zone).
The good news is that the world is filled with super hot Type 2s and Type 3s, and I’m talking about what most men would consider 9s and 10s. Whenever I go out on a first date with a VYW, not only do I the older man aspect.